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Day One (of being a father)

You would be teenager by now. 13 years, I didn’t get to tell you the story about how you survived. But, I know one day, we are going to meet again in Heaven and I will tell you the story about how you changed my life.

My Haircut Journey, Part 2

It’s just hair, isn’t it? So it was surprising that so many thoughts and emotions played out before, during, and after I got my once-in-a-lifetime haircut.

Fast Forward

2017 was the first time I heard the word “Derealization” from a friend. Derealization (or Depersonalization) disorder refers to the experience of feeling detached from, and as if one is an outside observer of, one’s surroundings.

My Haircut Journey, Part 1

What is our relationship to hair? Is it a vehicle for self-expression? Is it power? Is it beauty? Is it comfort? Is it fashion?

Unanswered Prayers

未得到回應的祈禱。 I am not a religious person, but I used to have my kids to pray with me every night before we went to sleep.  Praying to God, thank Him for the joy He brings to the days and wishes for a better day tomorrow.